Mutual Friendship
Posted in Friendship Hearts, Mutual Friendship, Mutual Friendships
This is personally my favorite type of friendship. The thing I like about this type of friendship is the fact that both parties are equally affected. Both parties either loose, gain or don’t loose or gain anything (be it positive or negative). Both parties either input something into the friendship or input nothing at all. There are three types of mutual friendships.
a) Positive mutual relationship
b) Negative mutual relationship
c) Passive mutual relationship
POSITIVE MUTUAL FRIENDSHIP:
In this type of friendship, you and your partner have positive things to impact on each other in other to make themselves better than they were before they met. In his type of friendship, quality time is spent between the friends. Quality time in which they discuss about making their future better, encourage themselves, ideas they have on changing the world and any other self developing topic. If you are in this type of friendship, I’ll advice you to hold on to that friend.S/he is a rare gem that needs to be treasured. The sad thing about such friendship is that it is very rare. The good thing about this friendship is that you will know that your friend is a true friend and you can vouch for him o anything. Hold on, you and your friend will change the world.
NEGATIVE MUTUAL FRIENDSHIP:
Well, this is the worst type of friendship. in this friendship, the two friends are parasites on each other. They are detrimental to each other. The funny thing about this relationship is that deep down in their hearts, the two friends know that they are not helping each other but are scared of leaving the friendship. Well, most times they do not know what they are in to that’s why they are scared of leaving the friendship. Let me use an analogy to describe this relationship. There is this substance called sweetene (a fictitious substance-does not really exist). It is a sweet substance but unknown to everyone, it’s a poison. If I call ten people that like sugary stuff to drink it, they would gladly do so but the moment I tell them its poison, they will probably kill me before they die. This is the same as the NMR. It is a slow killing poison. You might be enjoying all the bad things you and your friend do together but it is surely detrimental to your life. Get out of it now!!!!!
PASSIVE MUTUAL FRIENDSHIP:
I call this type of friendship a casual friendship. It is most common between children but for adults that participate in such relationship, it’s a waste of time. In this type of friendship, the two friends contribute nothing to making themselves either better or worse. This is a time wasting friendship. These types of friends just talk about anything. They ‘gist’ their time away. Most people that have mutual friends usually fall under such category (PMR). In fact, most best friends operate in this type of friendship. Unknown to them, they just while away time. The good thing about such friendship is that as the friends mature, they turn this friendship into a positive mutual friendship. Well, my advice for children that are in this friendship is that they should make sure they eventually become positive mutual friends but for adults, I want them to analyze the whole relationship and realize that they have three options; to change it, to leave it or to remain in it. I expect you will know the right thing to do.
By: Oladipupo Fasawe
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May 30th, 2010 at 9:04 am
well, friendship is also the main thing in life of every man as well as marriage and kids. who we are without our friends?
June 1st, 2010 at 3:25 am
I was dating someone who said he just want a mutual friendship. What’s the difference between a “mutual” friendship and just a normal friendship….
June 1st, 2010 at 3:50 am
Thank you so much rainfield, and am happy that you enjoy them.Just seeing the pictures (experiences) as they are. They always feel tranquile to me.
June 1st, 2010 at 10:00 am
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June 1st, 2010 at 11:04 am
This has absolutely inspired me! I’m definitely going to want to read Dickens aloud with my husband. Thanks for the review, Lanier! Reading your pieces is bliss!
June 1st, 2010 at 5:49 pm
Great post describing friendship. I think friendship is really essential for all. It open the new doors of success for a person.
I love a gal and she’s really best friend, i share every moment of my life with her.
June 2nd, 2010 at 3:55 am
Though the book was poorly reviewed at the time, it has been treated far more kindly by contemporary critics, and is considered a great work of his later period.
June 2nd, 2010 at 9:50 am
Our Lord ANSI honored friendship by their blessed inscriptions of the laws of granting and receiving friendship.
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June 2nd, 2010 at 9:58 am
It so great that He gave His only begotten Son, Jesus Christ, in order that our friendship with God might be restored. He did that in spite of the fact that we have offended Him deeply.
June 2nd, 2010 at 1:07 pm
love your painting, hope all communication are as inspiring as this one, but nevertheless, they all are our means to learn and grow.
June 14th, 2010 at 11:54 am
On reading your post I was lost in thought for a long time and it occured to me that you are quite right on that. Good article. Thank you.
June 15th, 2010 at 4:29 pm
This is personally my favorite type of friendship. The thing I like about this type of friendship is the fact that both parties are equally affected. Both parties either loose, gain or don’t loose or gain anything (be it positive or negative). Both parties either input something into the friendship or input nothing at all.
June 15th, 2010 at 6:14 pm
I just understand now deeply about mutual friendship.
June 17th, 2010 at 3:46 am
I’m surprised I offered such encouragement, it must have been having a bad on-air day, as in my own research on internet activism in a rapidly changing Malaysian suburb I have tried to capture both ephemeral and more lasting sets of social relations.
July 1st, 2010 at 3:42 am
I would probley never speak to them again knowing me i would attack them and send them to the hospital, but my advice to you is to not do that, i would say approach them and talk to them about it maybe they did do it maybe they did not do it..
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July 1st, 2010 at 3:45 am
I’d probley under no circumstances speak to them once again understanding me i would attack them and send them on the hospital, but my advice to you is always to not do that, i would say method them and talk to them about it possibly they did do it probably they didn’t do it..
July 1st, 2010 at 3:46 am
I’d probley in no way speak to them once again understanding me i would attack them and send them towards hospital, but my assistance for you is always to not do that, i would say tactic them and talk to them about it perhaps they did do it probably they didn’t do it..
July 1st, 2010 at 3:47 am
I’m astonished I offered such encouragement, it must happen to be getting a poor on-air day, as in my very own exploration on internet activism inside a rapidly changing Malaysian suburb I’ve tried to capture both ephemeral and a lot more lasting sets of social relations.
July 1st, 2010 at 3:55 am
Thanks this ‘mutual friends’ business sounds really intriguing and I look forward to reading more about it.
July 1st, 2010 at 6:43 am
I’m fully behind you in your zeroing in on and tracking these ‘mutual friends’ sets of relations, but without neglecting the unique ‘logics’ of the broader socio-technical environments in which they operate: Facebook, Twitter, delicious, etc.
July 1st, 2010 at 12:44 pm
I call this type of friendship a casual friendship. It is most common between children but for adults that participate in such relationship, it’s a waste of time.
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July 1st, 2010 at 12:47 pm
There is no greater example than the love of God for us. It so great that He gave His only begotten Son, Jesus Christ, in order that our friendship with God might be restored.
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July 1st, 2010 at 5:22 pm
Its mostly popular in kids. I think its the great way to express your views with your friends. You can share your important things with friends and get ideas.
Thanks for the good post.
July 2nd, 2010 at 10:24 am
In his type of friendship, quality time is spent between the friends. Quality time in which they discuss about making their future better, encourage themselves, ideas they have on changing the world and any other self developing topic.
July 3rd, 2010 at 5:11 pm
True friendship requires certain accountability factors. Real friends encourage one another and forgive one another where there has been an offense. Genuine friendship supports during times of struggle. Friends are dependable. In true friendship, unconditional love develops.