Friendship and Betrayal
Posted in Friendship betrayal of friend, Friendship
If you have a close friend — or one who you think is a close friend that is talking about you behind your back, what do you do?
Do you confront this person?
Do you let it go?
Tell us how you would handle a friend’s betrayal.
March 2nd, 2010 at 11:38 am
I introduced her to the friend of the guy i was seeing. When he told her he didn’t want a relationship she came onto the guy i was seeing. I’m not going out with him but we where sort of dating and he was there with me that night.
March 3rd, 2010 at 8:40 am
True friends are hard to find, most of the time, people land up with wrong people, who are difficult to adjust with. With the increasing selfishness and cut throat competition between peers.
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March 3rd, 2010 at 11:34 pm
Tell her friendship over.
March 6th, 2010 at 12:13 pm
confront her
March 8th, 2010 at 10:19 am
Confront her about what you heard…
March 10th, 2010 at 6:01 pm
TALK to her a try to understand why she said what she said!!!!
March 10th, 2010 at 9:26 pm
confront her she may not have said it at all
March 13th, 2010 at 12:15 pm
I would probley never speak to them again knowing me i would attack them and send them to the hospital, but my advice to you is to not do that, i would say approach them and talk to them about it maybe they did do it maybe they did not do it. you should ask no matter what
March 13th, 2010 at 5:02 pm
ignore if you can some time people become friend graduialy
March 17th, 2010 at 1:59 am
Drop her in your ratings, she’s not your best friend.
If she’s just a gossip, maybe she’s still a friend, if it was hurtfull or you told her it was a secret she is no friend of yours.
March 19th, 2010 at 2:44 pm
Definately ask her about it, consider the source who told you she said it. Then decide which person you believe. And which you want to be friends with cause one of them is lying. (If she says she didn’t say it which she probably will) If she admits it….move on. Get her out of your life.
March 22nd, 2010 at 12:35 pm
Confront your friend about the issue in a civilized way. If this friend is any friend at all, you should be able to talk about issues that come up. I think we all talk about people behind their backs, we just realize it more when the talking is about ourselves. If the friendship is that strong, you’ll work things out.
March 22nd, 2010 at 1:56 pm
Make sure it is true with confrontation. Then, make your final decision.
March 24th, 2010 at 6:41 am
There are only really a few stories to tell in the end, and betrayal and the failure of love is one of those good stories to tell.
March 24th, 2010 at 9:19 am
ditch her 4 real who needs a freind like dat
March 25th, 2010 at 4:33 am
Talk to them and find why they said what they said and if they did say Tell them How you fell then decided if you still want to be friends
March 26th, 2010 at 8:31 pm
Well if she said that she’s you’re best friend and she’s saying some stuff behind you’re back, then you should talk to her about that, ask her, and confront her. And when you ask her and she lied that she didn’t say that, then you go get the person who told you that you’re best friend are saying some stuff and bring that person to the front of your best-friend and ask each of every one. then you will find out who’s telling the true. then when you find out that you’re best friend are real saying some stuff and lying to you then you’re friendship have to be over.
March 30th, 2010 at 12:15 am
First of all, can you trust the person who told you your best friend was talking about you behind your back? It may be that the person telling you this is just trying to cause conflict between you and your best friend.
If this person truly is your best friend (and this goes both ways) then you should be able to go to him/her and talk about it. Just say something along the lines of….You know I told you about _______, and I thought we had an understanding that ______ was just between you and I. I heard that you have been going behind my back and talking about me with other people. How would you feel if I started going behind your back and telling people about your _____.
Conflict is a tough situation. It can ruin friendships. And that causes fear. But if the friendship is important enough to you, you will face your fear and confront your friend.
It may be that you didn’t tell your best friend that ______ was something between the two of you and not to go blabbing about it. In that case, in the future, when you want to share something but don’t want the person blabbing to everyone, make sure to tell them not to talk out of school.
April 1st, 2010 at 5:42 am
I would never send this to any of myk friends b/c they seem to be the only backstabbing people around me. is that what friends are really for?
April 1st, 2010 at 8:56 am
well, i experience this before… hunny, believe me.. in this world there’s no such thing as best friend… even if u were to have one or two.. it wont last long as human are like this where they like mixing with people whom they think they can hang out with… in other words, they like choosing… u can either go face-to-face with her and ask her why she’s doing this to u or u just do as if nothing had happen… cz forgive is the best thing 2 b done than looking or making this worse right? anyway, best of luck then…
April 1st, 2010 at 2:38 pm
I friends who betrayed each other for a very long time.
April 2nd, 2010 at 3:31 am
My friend and me really need some time to heal up . Your poem encouraged me that there could still be life. Thank you so much!
April 3rd, 2010 at 11:45 pm
talk to her but dont make an scene .because u dont know where that person heard who may have told u .so trust ur heart
April 6th, 2010 at 2:37 am
tell her everything may be you missunderstand her
April 6th, 2010 at 10:48 am
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April 8th, 2010 at 9:28 am
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April 12th, 2010 at 8:16 am
I can;t believe that the feelings that I ahave trapped inside of me cxould be put into words so beatifully. Thank you for setting me free.
April 12th, 2010 at 8:18 am
Personally, this poem touches me as it is exactly how I feel at the moment. My best friend, how we shared everything, and it ends with betrayal. And me hoping our friendship will rebegin. It is absolutely amazing how you express all this in a poem. Thank you so much Dan for sharing this with us.
April 28th, 2010 at 8:56 am
I once have a friend when iwas in grade 6. But she once talk behind my back, so, from that day, we do not talk nor saying hello to each other. She once say hello to me but i didnt greet her back. And now i didnt know if how long it will take for us to become friends again.
May 3rd, 2010 at 9:44 am
The book is about friendship, betrayal, forgiveness, redemption and healing on a very personal level – reflected in how Amir finally rescued Hassan’s son Sohrab from a horrific fate and in doing so, found ” a way to be good again” like what Rahman has predicted.
May 4th, 2010 at 11:35 am
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May 5th, 2010 at 3:24 am
I think that this poem is very good for friends who betrayed each other for a very long time.
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June 8th, 2010 at 3:57 am
I the moment have a friend when iwas in grade 6. But she once talk behind my back, so, from that day, we tend not to talk nor saying hello to each other. She when say hello to me but i didnt greet her back. And now i didnt know if how long it’s going to take for us to grow to be good friends once more.